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Why Feeling Close Takes More Than Commitment

You can be married, loyal, and still feel completely alone in your relationship.
That’s not failure. It’s a sign your Love Account is running low.

Most couples focus on commitment, but forget about connection.
And connection doesn’t thrive on autopilot.

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Reconnection Isn’t Just for the Crisis Moments

Many couples wait until something’s wrong to reconnect—but by then, disconnection has already taken root.
What if reconnection wasn’t just a repair tool—but part of your regular rhythm?
In this post, Dr. Carol explores how small, intentional moments can keep your relationship strong, even when things seem “fine.”

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How Deep Is Your Connection—Really?

You can spend years side by side with someone and still feel miles apart. True connection isn’t built on shared schedules—it’s built on emotional safety, honest conversations, and the feeling of being truly seen. If you’re craving deeper closeness, it might be time to look inward and rediscover what’s possible between you.

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Teens and Your Relationship: Navigating the Storm Together

The teen years bring big changes—not just for your child, but for your relationship, too. While this season can feel overwhelming, it also creates space to reconnect, rediscover each other, and grow stronger together. With care, teamwork, and a little vision, this chapter can be a meaningful bridge to an even deeper bond.

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Change Your Thoughts to Change Your Life

Sometimes the way we think about our relationship can quietly hold us back—but even the smallest shift in mindset can open the door to change. Just adding the word “yet” to your thoughts can bring in hope, possibility, and a gentle path forward.

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Sticks and Stones…But Words Can Break My HEART

Your words have lasting power, shaping your partner’s emotions, mindset, and the overall health of your relationship. In moments of stress or frustration, pausing before speaking can prevent unnecessary hurt and deepen trust. This blog explores how words affect your relationship and provides practical strategies to communicate with care, even in difficult moments.

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Stop Dreaming and Start Doing

Life is always busy, but real connection isn’t built in the “perfect” moments—it’s built in the everyday ones. A thriving marriage doesn’t require grand gestures; it’s about showing up in small but meaningful ways. A kind word, a shared laugh, a moment of undivided attention—these keep love alive. You’re not stuck—you’re just one decision away from a stronger, happier marriage.

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Couples Reconnecting: One Conversation At a time

A thriving relationship is built one conversation at a time—both the ones you have with your spouse and the ones you have with yourself. This blog explores how shifting your inner dialogue, engaging in meaningful conversations, and prioritizing emotional connection can transform your relationship from feeling like roommates to feeling truly seen, heard, and loved.

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3 Warning Signs That You Have Drifted Apart and How to Reverse It!

If you and your partner feel more like roommates than a deeply connected couple, it may be time to recognize the signs of drifting apart. Excessive screen time, lack of meaningful communication, and prioritizing social time over your relationship can quietly weaken your bond. The good news is that with intentional changes, such as setting aside device-free time, creating space for open conversations, and finding the right balance between social life and quality time together, you can rebuild emotional intimacy and strengthen your connection.

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TRANSITIONS: How MY MOVE Could HELP YOU & YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Life transitions, whether chosen or unexpected, offer valuable lessons for growth. This blog explores the importance of accepting help, building resilience, and staying focused on your “why” to navigate change successfully. These insights apply not just to moving but also to relationships, encouraging couples to embrace change together for a stronger, more fulfilling partnership.

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Dr Carol J Henry

Marriage Coach

A marriage coach with over 35 years of experience helping couples transform their relationships. She teaches couples the tools, strategies, and mindsets they need to become exceptional partners—creating relationships that are loving, peaceful, connected, and joyful.

Dr Carol J Henry

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